JB the GOAT

Who is the GOAT (Greatest of all time)?

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Real Friends

Have you seen my message on Real Friends?  If not, check it out here.

Discontent

Don’t focus on the size of the problem you desire to tackle, focus on the size of your God who will be with you to tackle the problem!

Watch the full message HERE. Let me know what your area of discontent is and what step you plan to take to address it.

Solving The Puzzle

My wife and I have started playing a game called Kami 2 on our mobile devices. It’s a puzzle game where the player has a predetermined number of moves to change colored segments into one, unified color. It is addicting and if you really get into it, you will become frustrated. But if you keep at it and solve the puzzle, you will be satisfied...until you start the next level and become challenged all over again!

My wife introduced the game to her friend, who fell in love with it, even though she continually cursed it out!  She would play all night.  One morning, after staying the night at our house, she woke up tired. I asked her if she was ok. She stated, “Your wife has ruined my life!” I ask, “Why? What’s wrong?” She stated, “I stayed up until 1AM playing that darn game!  I got stuck on this level.” She wanted to feel the satisfaction of advancing to the next level of the game.  

We all want to do that! Whether it is a video game or real life: It may be a challenge you are facing on your job, a bully in school, a relationship issue, an emotional struggle, a financial trial, or a physical test with your health. Whatever you are dealing with, try the following:

1. Give yourself a head start - read all you can about what you are attempting to accomplish.
2. Focus on your task. Don’t allow your surroundings to distract you.
3. Don’t stop trying. Keep plugging away. Your experience is what will prepare you for the next level.
4. Connect with someone who can help you.  Community is so helpful when you are burdened. People can comfort and encourage you. They can also offer you helpful tips that you may not have thought of previously.

Many times, in real life, we keep ourselves up at night; we get frustrated; we fuss and cuss because we have spent SO much time on this level, when we know we should be at the next level by now.  

Try the tips above and see if they help you become successful this week in whatever you are facing.

Share your positive story with us below. The more we share, the more we help each other!

Everyday can be Brighter

Challenging week ahead? Take the following into consideration:

1. Try to See you challenges differently. Intentionally see the positive in every situation, change your perception of others who may be involved and keep an open mind.

2. Pray. Ask for wisdom. Ask for God's guidance in and perspective on your challenge. Intentionally respond the way He would respond.

3. Stay on course. Many times we don't see the results that we expect because we quit too early. Life is challenging, but you can make it.  Don't give up!  Don't give in!  See it through. You are building character and strength.

To see the full message, Click HERE: Next Level - Test Your Skills

Next Level

I remember when I worked an Information Technology (IT) job. It was outside of the larger organization’s IT department. You see, the organization was a PC based campus. I was brought in to help change the culture and implement Mac usability, for the creative side of things, in a smaller academic department.  

As I attempted to implement culture change, I was convinced that two of the higher up IT managers hated my guts! I didn’t know why. Maybe it was because of the PC/Mac difference. Maybe it was because I was the only minority in the entire building. Maybe it was because I was brought in to change things, and you know that people hate change. One of the guys would write bullying emails to me and talk about me to other people in the organization.  The other would set me up for failure.  When I needed to direction, I would ask for his assistance. Because I was new, he would give me bad information, then go to my boss’s boss to put me down.  I know this because my bosses boss talked to me to tell me what was going on behind my back. She wanted to get my perspective and to let me know that she was on my side. I guess I was an interruption in those guys plans.

One day, I got fed up and wrote a long email, telling them about themselves. I let my wife read it. She said, “Do you really want to send this? What will it accomplish?”  I didn’t send the email. Being in that situation taught me patience. I learned how to deal with all people, no matter how they treated me or what others may think of me. God knew that I needed that lesson before I would become a pastor.  I know that my faith was being tested. It would have been easy to quit; to go back to my old job; to say, I’ve had enough of this stuff! But I know that God was up to something great and He was molding and shaping me for my Next Level experience. Now, when I encounter challenging people, or my patience is tested, I can look at those situations differently and say, “Thank you Lord” and smile because I know He is up to something great in me. He is taking me to my Next Level.

What trials, tests or challenges are you facing this week? Try to look at them differently by:

1. Seeing the positive in each situation

2. Changing your perception of the people involved and

3. Keeping an open mind

Press through your challenges this week.  You will build strength, patience, character.  You will persevere!

Tell us about a lesson you learned through being challenged in the comments below.

This weekend, I am starting a new series at the Vineyard Church - Syracuse titled Next Level. I hope you can join us in person or online at vineyardny.org.

Are You Feeling Stuck?

What Are You DOING?!!?!!?

Sometimes...oftentimes we get stuck in a rut. We allow years to pass as we continue doing the same thing.  Many of us get frustrated with where we are in life, because our dream hasn’t been fulfilled, or time is passing us by, or things are not turning out the way we wanted them to.

If you do not like where you are right now; if you are not satisfied with your current condition; if you are waiting for something new to happen in your life, then I would like to suggest you do the following to bring more completeness and joy into your life:

1. Do something different TODAY.  Don’t wait until tomorrow. You can change your attitude, the route you take to school or work, your wardrobe, and how you treat others. You can enroll in a class or enrich your mind with educational content on khanacademy.com, open courses at Yale or youtube.com.  
2. Think outside of the box.  Talk to a variety of people about your ideas. If they say anything negative, try not to be discouraged. Use it as a learning experience. Take it for what it is worth - someone else’s opinion. Use others ideas to help perfect and polish your ideas.  
3. Maximize every moment with your family. You may not get another opportunity.
4. Do something great for someone else this week!

Make today different and better than yesterday.  

What will you do differently today? Encourage others by informing us in the comment section below.